Child maintenance is a very sensitive matter
as emotional vendettas almost always come to play. Maintenance refers to the
obligation of both parents to provide a minor with housing, food, clothing,
education and medical care within their means. It is important to remember that
parents remain responsible for a child’s maintenance regardless of whether they
remarry, enter into a new relationship or have new children to take care of.
It is an unfortunate fact that so many parents
fail to abide by their maintenance obligation, often leading to the other
parent withholding visitation rights. Both are however wrong, legally speaking.
According to the law a parent may not withhold visitation rights due to the
other parent’s failure to pay maintenance, the law treats a parent’s visitation
right and maintenance obligation as two separate legal topics, the one does
thus not qualify the other.
Our Children’s
Act 38 of 2005 provide unmarried biological fathers with more rights than
before, even in the unfortunate instance where no maintenance is paid. The
unmarried biological father will have the parental right to contact and act as
guardian of a child should he have been married to the child’s mother at the
time of conception, birth or anytime between conception and birth. If this does
not apply, the law looks at whether the unmarried biological father was in a
permanent life-partnership with the biological mother at the time of the
child’s birth, whether the unmarried biological father consents to be
identified or proves paternity in court or attempts to contribute to the
child’s upbringing and / or maintenance for a reasonable period. Previously
this was not the case, leaving an unmarried biological father with very little
say in his child’s upbringing.
The greatest
problem in our legal system is the lack of legal education. This is why we
waste emotional energy, the time of our courts and our own money on settling a
vendetta when there is a different and less traumatic approach to take. The Children’s Act is a prime example of how
the law tries to keep family matters out of court and encourages mediation for
the drafting of parental responsibilities and rights agreements in section 22
of the Act. LIPCO is a mediation
enthusiast, settling 80% of our matters by way of mediation. Mediation
is LIPCO’s top priority because we know, from 20 years of experience, it yields
the best result.
We look forward to welcoming you to
the Free LIPCO Child Maintenance Workshops. Please note that we will
make available on our website a copy of the presentation for those who are
unable to attend the following three venues:
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LIPCO
Office
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Date
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Venue
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Time
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Johannesburg
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Saturday,
29th of June 2013
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GO YE Christian
Ministry, No 1088 Nxumalo Road (opposite U-Save), Mofolo North
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11:00 – 13:00
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East
London
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Wednesday, 26th of June 2013
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Ministry Alive Church located near Dignity Park,
Meisies halt East London
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18:00 PM
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Western
Cape
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Saturday,
29th of June 2013
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9 Scheltd Road, Mannenberg
(directly opposite Caltex)
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09:30 AM
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Keeping you informed,
LIPCO